In Reply to: If your husband is a spender, and you are a saver SM posted by renee on October 09, 2005 at 23:53:36:
...then you should immediately take the other half and squirrel it safely away never to be accessible to him again! I mean, seriously! What kind of dolt spends half of a windfall on "toys" with no thought to the future?
Honey, it looks like the only one thinking of you will be YOU so go ahead and do what you feel is best. Share nothing, he's already taken his share. He is not being a team player so you don't be either. He does not deserve it.
And yes, unless BOTH of you get some counseling I think you are headed for marital trouble. Trust me, I have been there and it does not get better on its own. Take care of YOU.
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