In Reply to: It's been awhile since I was here and once again need some advice. posted by Old Mom on May 09, 2005 at 08:19:42:
in your judgment call about this woman. But as soon as you express your opinion to your son you will immediately become "the bad guy" in his eyes and she will undoubtedly jump in and say, "See?? I told you she doesn't like me, that nosy witch." and it will get blown so far out of proportion you'll not know what hit you.
Please, please, please if you want your son in your life, try to bite the bullet and not say a negative word to him about this woman. If he has half a brain he'll find out that he picked a lemon in the garden of love soon enough, but if you are the one who brings that truth to his attention you will alienate yourself from your son, possibly forever. It's not worth it. He's a big boy and capable of making his own decisions regarding his life, whether they are good ones or not so good ones.
Big hugs to you.
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