In Reply to: what state are you in? posted by Pam on Tue, May 10 2022 at 12:19 AM CDT:
so he's rather knowledgeable enough to talk to the bank but I'm kind of doing this inquiry behind his back. He did us a good thing 4 yrs ago when we re-fi'd and did a debt consolidation with the re-fi (HUGE debt I had accumulated from being in the lousy MT field). But sometimes, even with his expertise, I have sometimes had to talk him out of things, or into things. lol
We do not even have a will. Trying to talk him into getting that done but he's ridiculously frugal and doesn't want to pay a lawyer yet. One day I'm going to have to sit down with a legal pad and just say "okay, here are my wishes, let's start writing stuff down." Bottom line, if we die with assets, I want everything left donated to charities (by whoever is in charge of our estate, which I don't know how that is done yet).
Thanks for the input. Oh, don't worry, I do trust you! :) And Talon too.
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