We have 9 grandchildren, all grown except for 2 of them are 15. We have been giving them $50 each every Christmas since they were born. Some are now in their mid-20's, late 20's. Do we continue with the $50 forever? Do we stop it when they get married? I was thinking maybe getting married is cut off time, and so we did with one of them, but that doesn't seem fair either. Or should we have given the new bride, new family member 50 too, even though she is not a grand. HELP me for next year. Please. Any and all opinions welcome.