In Reply to: Hi. sm posted by Sigh on April 27, 2008 at 16:42:07:
I have my own list of those things I hate and that drive me nuts. I don't care anymore if I'm the "bad wife" for not liking those things. That's only his opinion. It doesn't make you a bad person.
Has he always been like this? I'm guessing not since you said this is the person you had wanted to grow old with, yet you can make a list like that. BTDT. I don't know how to get him to understand that we aren't the same two people we were 20 years ago and we have grown apart in soo many ways. I'm tired of living like this, but am I tired of it enough to make the necessary changes to be moving on........???
Anywho, I don't have any wise words, just a comforting hello, you are not alone, and feel free to vent anytime!