In Reply to: Why? Cause he's an A**--that's why. There's no two ways around it-sm posted by Vicki on November 13, 2007 at 08:39:21:
The entire time I was with him, everyone asked me what I saw in him, and I told them that there is another side to him that they didn't see. I thought I was "chosen," but I know now that he was using me. He never opened up to me about his deepest self. After 13 years, I still don't know if he actually believes in God, and you know how important that is to me. He talked about lots of other "spiritual" stuff but never answered my simple question whether he believed in God or not. That is just an example that he never let me in completely. His being nice to me and "sweet" was all a front. He used me for sex and for a companion until someone else came along, and then he threw me away and is an A** to me just like he is to everyone else.
I was so blind. I saw what I wanted to see. This whole experience has changed my whole outlook. I'm not cynical about men. Don't get me wrong. But I will be more careful about how I perceive people in general.