or later, but weren't expecting this already. We have always thought that my oldest SS would eventually move in with us. He really loves being with his dad and really needs him in his life. Well, the week before last, he spent the night 3 nights. Last week, he was here every night except Wednesday night and that was because we were out of town. Yesterday, he left the wrestling meet with his mom to go out to dinner. We were out at a friend's house in the evening and didn't have our cell phones with us. I guess he had been trying to call to come over again. Right away this morning--he always gets up at 7 and it was 7:02 when the phone rang,-he called to see if I can pick him up after school so he can stay here again.
We have tried to talk to him to see if anything is wrong at home and he says nothing, so we have opened that door for him if there is something he needs to chat about. I personally think he is sick of his mom's crap--as we all are-and he just feels this is more of a home.
One night last week, his mom picked him up at his grandma's and he asked to come here for the night. She proceeds to say, "What,don't you love me anymore?" Okay, I will admit if 1 of my children wasn't wanting to stay at my house anymore it would hurt, but I would be more inclined to ask him if there is something wrong or does he just want to be with his dad, something along those lines rather than putting that don't you love me question to him. He told us about it and I could tell it bothered him. Poor kid. Who puts guilt trips on their kids like that? Come on. Use your head.
Okay, once again, thank you for letting me vent ladies. My husband and I have been venting a lot about her lately to each other, but we try to limit it so she is not the main topic of our conversations. Believe me, with all she does, we could talk about her all day!