In Reply to: An etiquette question - If someone sent you an posted by sm on June 12, 2009 at 13:14:55:
: item via UPS with no return address (other than the shipper's address). Inside the box, again, nothing such a shipping invoice, etc. to give any idea who sent this to me. I received a Gold Canyon oatmeal spice candle which is my very, very favorite. I think I know who sent this to me after searching my brain for who would know that this is my favorite candle (scent and candle company) and would know my address (sort of new). I would like to thank this person for the candle but I'm just wondering - if someone sends something anonymously, would it be considered rude to try to find out who sent it and then thank that person or do you think leaving them anonymous is right where it should stay?