In Reply to: LJ - I have some experience with this, with a family member. SM posted by Becky on December 12, 2006 at 16:53:10:

: She is being treated by the counselor, and you're doing everything you can do.
: But her not eating unless you eat with her is another form of exercising control just because she can, the same thing as her own anorexia. It's the very same thing. My relative did this to me, too, and everybody else who really loved her. She couldn't help it. It was not a matter of being mean. Do you think you could meet with her counselor?
: I tried to post this before and it wouldn't let me. I wonder if it will this time.